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Proverbs 31:  What's A Merchant Ship Got to Do With It?

7/22/2013

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She looks for wool and flax, and works with her hands in delight.  She is like merchant ships; she brings her food from afar
Proverbs 31:13-14

My first instinct with these verses is to run right past them and deny they exist.  I mean, I certainly don't go out looking for wool or flax.  And a merchant ship?  What does that have to do with being a godly woman?

That's where understanding the culture and time in which these verses were written is very helpful in "getting" this Proverbs 31 thing.

Let's start with "She looks for wool and flax".  Yes, we want to become a woman who is honored to be called a Proverbs 31 woman, but to be honest, most of us don't know the first thing about wool or flax.

Nope.

See looked for wool and flax because that was necessary in her culture.  She had to have wool and flax in order to weave fabric that would be used to make clothes for her family. 

So maybe we don't go out looking for wool and flax, that's not typical for our culture, but we do make sure our children have clothes to wear.  She may have had wool and flax, but she did not know how to operate a washer or a dryer and she did not have department stores.  If this had been written in our culture it may have said something like this:

    When the children's pants are too short, she heads to Wal-Mart, consignment stores, Children's Place, or Old     Navy to find what they need at the best price.    She makes sure her family has clean clothes to wear and puts     a load of  laundry in the washer on the way out the door, headed across town to the the grocery.

Speaking of going to the grocery.....let's move on to verse 14 "She is like merchant ships; she brings her food from afar."  What was a merchant ship in this day?  Merchant ships traveled about the seas collecting needed merchandise to bring back to the people who made exchanges for the merchandise.  Often merchant ships traveled at times that were not optimal or convenient, facing the elements of nature.  This was typical for their culture.

What is typical for our culture?

Do you go out and bring back to your home what your family needs?

If your child has a fever during the night, and the medicine cabinet is empty, do you head out to Walgreen's for some Ibuprofen or Tylenol?

Of course you do.  You go from store to store gathering the things needed to feed, clothe, and care for your family.  You do it all seasons of the year, you do it when it's not convenient, you do it when it's not in optimal conditions.   You pull in the driveway, drag in the bags, and they fill the counter. 

Like a merchant ship.

It's unquestionable that my car feels like a merchant ship when I steer into my garage many times.  It seems as if I have had to stop at every store between my house and Timbuktu.  I felt like the captain of a  a merchant ship this past Saturday.  We went to get back to school haircuts, school clothes, school shoes, and we had to restock the cupboards while we were out.  Phewwww!  You know you've been gone a while when your husband texts you with  "Everybody okay?"

The girls were so glad to get home and "dock the ship" and Husband was glad to see my little Buick steering into the harbor too. 

(We won't mention the gallon of ice cream that was left aboard the ship until Sunday afternoon......  Ahem.

Yes, P31 friend o'mine, you are like a merchant ship.

Aren't you delighted when these things are accomplished?  Delighted when your family's needs are met?

You are more of a Proverbs 31 woman than you thought! 


Does this sound like you?

Maybe I should add some screeching tires......


Father, these are phenomenal women that you have created.  Bless them as they come and go, I know sometimes my car sure seems like a merchant ship when I come home from errands, the trunk full of groceries and household items that seem to be gone in the blink of an eye.  Often these women feel that what they do is mundane and unimportant and sometimes the list of needs is longer than the list of time and resources. I ask you to help their dollar go far, lead their eyes to the things they need.  Give them strength and encouragement when they are tired, stressed, and weary and don't feel like getting out to do errands. When they feel unappreciated, would you whisper your appreciation straight into their hearts?  Remind us that by serving those you have placed within our homes, we are serving You and we are ministering to your Kingdom in the flesh.  Thank you, Father, for the servant nurturing hearts of so many women out there who love so sacrificially.  For they are loving like You.

XOXO,
Amy

1 Comment
Susan Davidson link
10/9/2020 07:30:09 am

I so loved your post. What awesome insight. I don’t think I have heard this verse explained any better.

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